At St Michael’s we always have the safety of our pupils in mind, and this includes their safety online. When we talk about e-safety, this doesn’t just cover PCs and laptops – it also applies to use of mobile phones, tablets, gaming consoles, and any other technology through which children can connect to information or to other people.
Children are taught through the computing curriculum how to use technology responsibly and safely, how to use search technologies effectively and how to report concerns about online content or contact.
In September 2018 we will ask all pupils to read and sign agreements to ensure they understand how to use ICT safely before they can use ICT facilities in school.
Helping your child stay safe
The best way to help your child to be safe when using the internet and new technologies is to talk to them and make sure they understand these simple rules, so that they can self-censor:
You should never give out personal details to online ‘friends’. Use a nickname when logging on and don’t share full name, email address, mobile number or school name.
Never give out any photos, including photos of family or friends – any picture or video online can be changed or shared without permission.
Talk to your child about what they are doing online and who they are talking to. Get them to show you how to use things you are not familiar with. Keeping the computer in a family room means that you can share your child’s online experience, they are less likely to act inappropriately (i.e. via webcam) and their online ‘friends’ will see they are in a family room.
If something pops up on the screen that your child does not understand or does not like, or if your child receives a message that upsets them, remind them to tell you or a trusted adult straight away. They should save the message and not reply to it.
Don’t reply to spam and junk emails and texts, or send them to anyone else – just delete them.
Don’t open files sent from people you don’t know. They could contain a virus, or worse – an inappropriate image or film.
An online ‘friend’ is anyone you have not met in real life; no matter how long you have been friends with them. Just like in real life, avoid talking to strangers online and only accept friend requests from people you know.
Help your child to understand that some people lie online and that it’s better to keep online ‘mates’ online. They should never meet up with any online ’friends’ without an adult they trust.
Make sure they know how to block someone online and report them if they feel uncomfortable.
Make sure your child feels able to talk to you. Let them know that it’s never too late to tell someone if something makes them feel uncomfortable. Don’t blame your child – let them know you trust them.
What else can you do?
Make sure your privacy settings are high on your phone / devices / computer. Set children’s modes where you have them on your devices.
Use password protection where you can. Set up individual accounts for your children and monitor their use regularly. Avoid sharing your account admin passwords with your children – things like App Store, iTunes, Google play etc. – to prevent children downloading inappropriate apps.
Where possible use the government initiative on Parental Controls on home broadband. Every major broadband service provider offers this – find out more at choose.net/media/guide/features/parental-controls-broadband-internet-safety.html. Your broadband provider will have added them already – you don’t need to do anything.
Read the school’s Anti-Bullying policy to find out more about cyberbullying.
Click here for links to websites offering information and advice about staying safe online.
CEOP - Child Exploitation & Online Protection Safety Centre – here you can report abuse and exploitation directly to CEOP
Thinkuknow - articles and guidance on all aspects of child internet safety
Parentinfo - articles, tips, expert advice and resources designed to help parents keep up with what their children are doing on-line
NSPCC Share Aware - Advice to help ensure your children stay safe online. Visit the ‘Know It All’ Section for an interactive guide about online safety
UK Safer Internet Centre - A parent’s guide to technology
e-safety advice for parents
Staying safe on social media
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